Six years ago, our oldest daughter turned six. We watched her open her birthday cards and presents. Steve said to me, "We'll do this two more times, and she'll be gone." He meant, we had already experienced one-third of her time at home with us. Instead of wishing the journey would just be over, we felt sad that it was going so quickly. The journey with both of our girls' "at-home years" seems so short. We were a little stunned: how could we already be one-third of the way there?
Our oldest daughter is 12 now, and we are two-thirds of the way there. And we aren't looking for any shortcuts or hoping for a place to stop and rest. We aren't wishing the time would just zip by and we would be "done."
The days are long, but the years are short.